Will this getting to know each other system work?

How do you accelerate the personal discovery process in a new relationship that can help it grow and become stronger? Don't really want to wait a few months to find out all the important stuff that can make the relationship stronger or in the end become relationship breakers. Most of us have little patience in this fast paced world and perhaps that slight amount of raw desperation at middle age make us want to make it move faster.

I came across this book from Michael Webb with questions that couples can ask each other. Includes a unique way for couples to email a few questions every day or two to each other to keep in touch and understand better at the same time. It's available through this site. What are the key questions you want to ask someone you are attracted to. Money, job, previous failed relationships, how do you like it when I touch you here, etc.? I vote for trying to reach a higher level of intimacy (emotional and physical) after some basic screening.

1000 Questions For Couples
posted by Bob Rempel 6:28 AM

Sunday, March 30, 2003

from the "I get all my best material from the sports pages department"
Winnipeg Free Press, C3, March 30/03

Sports Illustrated asked Jamie Sale and David Pelletier, Olympic figure skating champions, who have been dating for three years, if they ever get turned on while skating. "You know what I'm thinking about?" Pelletier answered. "I'm thinking about staying vertical, and I'm not talking about the little guy."

Tiger Woods won the Bay Hill Invitational by 11 strokes despite getting sick on the final day from bad pasta prepared by his Swedish girlfriend, Elin Nordegren. Says Ron Rapoport of the Chicago Sun Times: "He wants her to cook, too?"

and this golf widow funny:

Woman whose husband has just died goes into the local newspaper office to get an obituary published. The obt editor informs her there is a charge of 50 cents a word. She reflects and says, "Make it read, 'Bob Smith died.' " Amused at the woman's thrift, the editor tells her there is a seven-word minimum. After thinking it over, she says, 'Let it read, 'Bob Smith died. Golf clubs for sale'."
posted by Bob Rempel 10:44 AM

Wednesday, March 26, 2003

There are now about 5 great detailed articles on putting (free-no gotcha's) available at Strictlysports.com
If you want to lower your golf score this summer, like I was able to lower mine, I'd recommend you read these articles. Signup at the site for an email that tells you how to download articles. Lower Your Golf Score

posted by Bob Rempel 10:23 AM

Saturday, March 22, 2003

From The Bottom Of The Basket!
Here's some lighthearted fluff I found at the bottom at the in basket about men's rules. I wouldn't advise men to use these or give them to any woman they care about. For women, even if they are just a bit accurate about someone in your life, past, present or future, it might

As written by someone else (Source unknown)
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Please note ...these are all numbered "1" ON PURPOSE!

1. Learn to work the toilet seat. You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down.
We need it up, you need it down.
You don't hear us bitching about you leaving it down.
1. Birthdays, Valentines, and Anniversaries are not quests to see if we
can find the perfect present yet again!
1. Sometimes we are not thinking about you. Live with it.
1. Sunday = sports. It's like the full moon or the changing of the tides.
Let it be.
1. Don't cut your hair. Ever. Long hair is always more attractive than
short hair. One of the big reasons guys fear getting married is that married women always cut their hair, and by then you're stuck with her.
1. Shopping is NOT a sport. And no, we are never going to think of it that way.
1. Crying is blackmail.
1. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one: Subtle hints do not work! Strong hints do not work! Obvious hints do not work! Just say it!
1. We don't remember dates. Mark birthdays and anniversaries on a
calendar. Remind us frequently beforehand.
1. Most guys own three pairs of shoes - tops. What makes you think we'd
be any good at choosing which pair, out of thirty, would look good with your dress?
1. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.
1. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That's
what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.
1. A headache that last for 17 months is a problem. See a doctor.
1. Check your oil! Please.
1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. In fact,
all comments become null and void after 7 days.
1. If you won't dress like the Victoria's Secret girls, don't expect us to
act like soap opera guys.
1. If you think you're fat, you probably are. Don't ask us.
We refuse to answer.
1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways, and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one.
1. Let us ogle. We are going to look anyway; it's genetic.
1. You can either ask us to do something or tell us how you want it done.
Not both. If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.
1. Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials.
1. Christopher Columbus did not need directions, and neither do we.
1. The relationship is never going to be like it was the first two months
we were going out. Get over it. And quit whining to your girlfriends.
1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings. Peach,
for example, is a fruit, not a color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.
1. If it itches, it will be scratched. We do that.
1. We are not mind readers and we never will be.
Our lack of mind-reading ability is not proof of how little we care about you.
1. If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," we will act like nothing's wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.
1. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, expect an answer you
don't want to hear.
1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine.
Really.
1. Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to
discuss such topics as navel lint, the shotgun formation, or monster trucks.
1. You have enough clothes.
1. You have too many shoes.
1. Foreign films are best left to foreigners. (Unless it's Bruce Lee or some war flick where it doesn't really matter what the hell they're saying anyway.)
1. It is neither in your best interest or ours to take the quiz together.
No, it doesn't matter which quiz.
1. BEER is as exciting for us as handbags are for you.
1. Thank you for reading this; Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the couch tonight, but did you know we really don't mind that, it's like camping.
1. I'm in shape. ROUND is a shape.

posted by Bob Rempel 4:45 AM

Wednesday, March 19, 2003

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posted by Bob Rempel 1:33 PM

Online Dating-Worth A Try?
I say yes from personal experience and the comments of others.
We've got a new site that will always have fresh content about online dating, dating in general, how to's re a fabulous love life and romance, and all things related. Aimed at those starting over at 40 or 50 but we'll keep it relevant to all singles. Yes it helps if you enjoy some aspect of sports and recreation as well. It's at Fabulous love life....or just a few dates!

Have You Got Match? Take This Quick Search Test.
posted by Bob Rempel 6:13 AM

Friday, March 14, 2003

Marketplace: Dating: Meeting Beautiful Women System

You can tell not just golf and baseball are on my mind as spring approaches


Meet Beautiful Women System

posted by Bob Rempel 5:41 AM

Thursday, March 13, 2003

Marketplace-New Golf Ebook

Keys To A Repeating Golf Swing
posted by Bob Rempel 8:39 PM

Tuesday, March 11, 2003

Five Dates A Week Dating System

posted by Bob Rempel 11:18 PM

Five Dates A Week System
posted by Bob Rempel 11:05 PM

Sunday, March 09, 2003

Ebay Auctions Page

We aim to become on of the largest online sellers of sports and sports related (broadly defined) items over the next 3 years. We have a great auction name and related web domain. Other plans are in place. We will collaborate with most anyone to realize maximum value for their wholesale stock or just a few items. Take a moment and drop us a note (Send me mail)with info on the kinds of items you have in your control and we'll tell you about our compensation or purchase plans.

posted by Bob Rempel 4:07 AM

Can new drugs help you get past that afternoon body crash. Or help you feel as well with 6 hours as you would with 8 hours, the minimum recommended for our bodies. Interesting read about the effects of modafinil, a drug now used for narcolepsy.

Article Link
posted by Bob Rempel 3:36 AM

Is it possible? There would certainly be an appeal to a wide audience. Read about MGF and IGF.
Slate Article by David Plotz March 6, 2003
posted by Bob Rempel 3:31 AM

Thursday, March 06, 2003

Glossary of Life Insurance Terms When All That Talk From Your Agent or Accountant Gets Confusing.
posted by Bob Rempel 10:52 AM